Dancer, that is not off the topic. I don't even trust fiduciaries! And, as a real estate broker, I have a fiduciary relationship with my clients, especially when handling their earnest money. My uncle is the fiduciary for my 101 year old grandmother (her son) and I certainly don't trust him. As for group homes, that is not off the topic either. My mother will most likely go to a group home. I would worry most about is of course elder abuse. And how the caretaker deals with incontinence of the patient, as my mother is very modest and easily embarrassed. Anne, would you believe I love to paint houses too? Only inside, though. And now I can't do much unless a massage therapist is handy. The seniors in AZ need house painters too. As for caretakers, yes, AZ is the place to be. You can get certified as a PCA, personal care attendant.