Gim, I do understand this: because we cannot FEEL the love from others does not mean we are not loved. I went through this in marriage counseling. I was the one feeling unloveable, when in fact my h loved me very much. It was me being closed, and I had to learn to open up to RECEIVE love. I think we will learn what makes sense as we evolve. Or when we die. I don't know. Just when I think I have something figured out, a new element is introduced!
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