It's not devasting for your teenage children to at least know that you are experiencing abit of menopause. They are getting old enough.

It's not a good thing to "protect" children by not saying you are not feeling well. As long as they know they are not being blamed for anything. You don't need to say much more to them, but just for them to know.

WHile you sort out stuff with your hubby, is there something new you've wanting to try/become better? Focus on that. You need a break. I hope you do some form of exercise.
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