I will not leave John, because I have no where to go.

So, I'll have to just "get over it," I guess.

Thinking it probably is not a good idea to connect with the former, who I have not seen or spoken to in about 35 years.

I think because I'm turning 60 in July, I'm more interested in putting my energies into positive relationships. I don't think, I know I am.

I'm just going to hope that John and I will get to the place where we can be good roommates. I'll need to reach out to new friends and old to fill emotional needs.

Thanks to all who are helping me.

I was blessed to find this site and to have the opportunity to connect with all of the compassionate, ladies who make up this "boomer" community.

Blessings,
Emily