Great advice. The counsellor was the school counsellor and he is moving to another province. My son starts high school this year so would not have had access to him anyway.

I think the comment about him getting comfort from the girl is a good one, although I don't think that is what he is getting. It may be what he wants and he feels that he is too old now to get comfort from me. The guy thing, have to act tough.

She is always dumping him for other guys. She makes fun of him when she is out with her friends at the mall and it hurts his feelings. Shows how immature they really are and so not ready to handle the feelings and emotions that come with having sex.

I'm going to have a talk with him tonight and will try to listen and not talk at him. He doesn't like to open up though so it won't be easy. His current answer to everything is "I don't know"
Kate