My daughter and her family were just here for a visit. I loved seeing them come and I loved reclaiming my space when they left.

I think there is a big shift once they actually have a place that is their own...both my daughters are married and own homes. When they are still in college, etc. your house is still their home and the apartment or dorm is just where they are staying...once they establish a real home for themselves...it changes the feel of it for both of you...and they don't usually come home for extended periods of time anymore.

It's not hard anymore...it's just my life.
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Jane Carroll