I planned for years that my mom & grandmother would end up living with us.

The only thing I didn't plan....was when it actually happened!!! I am still learning as we go!

For me it's been easier having them here. I don't have to worry about them being alone. I don't have to deal with my job/missing work/traveling back & forth (even if it was only 10 miles!)...so in that aspect, things are easier.

But emotionally & mentally......it's a work in progress!!!

Research all you can. There have been so many more things come about that I never imagined!

And we're all here for you!!! [Smile]