Dotsie,
You weren't selfish. I am a firm believer that until you go through something you really don
't understand. Now that I've lost both parents I know what one of my friends meant when she told me she was now an orphan. One of my kids teachers
told me he should be over his grandpa dying the next year. I knew she hadn't gone through it yet.
I think were all too hard on ourselves I know I am so I am trying to lighten up a little.
I love the posts in here that make me laugh and cry. Its nice to have everyone as friends.
Maggie