NL, hang in there. We're all rooting for you and your family.
For the bike, check out freecycle.com. I don't know if there's one in your area, but it started here in AZ. Members post items they want to get rid of, or items they want. The request is that you post something to give away before you request something. You would be amazed at the items people are willing to give away. We have gotten rid of busted up concrete to someone who hauled it away to use as landscape rocks! Anyway, check it out, it's a great resource.
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