chatty, I think you hit the nail on the head. It's not what others want, it's what the person chooses even though it may very well not be the healthiest choice for all involved. Sometimes we want for others what they don't want for themselves. Know what I mean?

Starting over, I agree that fear has so much to do with it.

Casey,I love the questions you asked in your post dated April 6th. Money is a huge issue in marriages. It's one that should be discussed over and over again before taking the plunge.
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