oh oh, I think I know the answer.

I've done a TON of reading on the subject of dating (trying to become a professional in my field)..and what they say is this....

That guys WILL try to have sex with you immediately.

1. If you do you are setting yourself up to be nothing more then a fling. No chance of a real relationship if this is how you start out.

2. If you don't then the guy will see that you value yourself, and if he isn't a slimeball, he will pursue you in a relationship.

so, unfortunately this is a type of a test. Guys want SEX, but they really want a woman worth pursing!

my two cents,
danita



Edited by Danita (01/22/07 02:27 PM)
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