The last two days I have snuck home from my day job, just to watch. And I NEVER watch talk shows. I was intrigued by an advertisement.

This is a terrific, real life example of why it is often difficult to get a man charged with domestic violence.

The minute the husband walked on the stage, I knew he was an incredibly violent man. He didn't even have to open his mouth. Then when he did, I found out how incredibly violent he was, in sooooooo many forms. But there was no, or very little, legal proof that he was violent.

If I had known this years ago, I would have known that my ex was violent. But I had to learn the signs by experience. A very difficult way to learn.

How do we teach the emotional signs to our girls?