First of all, i am not wanting to do any male bashing....

But, why is it that men do not "see"it when they spill something...and not clean it up?

DH will spill coffee grounds on the counter and it will sit there until i clean up!

or crumbs from his toast...always there until I clean it up!

or, he leaves dishes outside after the dogs have "cleaned' them...until I pick them up!

My DH is not a lazy man...a hard, diligent worker...grew up on a Kansas farm etc.

Can anyone help me...preferrably with a Christian "lesson"??