Just spoke with my girlfriend in CA and she's called off her wedding to her boyfriend of three years because of...yep, his 27 year old daughter, who can't accept her. Geesh. Is there ever a woman who gets remarried and finds a man with grown children who doesn't have this problem? None of my step-parent friends have peace in their lives completely because of this. And this particular friend in CA...if you can't get along with her, you can't get along with anyone!